Are you ready to die ?

Title might sound crazy ,no body wants to die right and if you talk about death to someone you may be tagged as sadist .But fact is death is ultimate truth death is as normal as birth but we all refuse to accept it.I recently happen to view Ishayoga guru's speech on SS music ,i was wondering why do SS music does telecast program like this ,when they already have cool and beautiful Anchors to attract all the viewers :-) between iam a great fan of shreya ,was totally upset when she decided to quit TV anchoring, now VJ Paloma is filling the void created by shreya :-),Ok coming to the point i was talking about what Sadhguru's explanation on death here it is " Nobody experienced death , death is something that cannot be explained by the some who experience it to others .When we are all born we are very small ,weighing roughly around 2 kgs , now we have consumed things from nature and grown to this level ,it is a loan from the nature we took that made us to be what we are now,so when time comes the person who gave loan is asking the money back(your life) ,going with loan analogy if you are good customer you will make maximum use of the money you get and multiply the amount you borrowed to such a extent that you will be more than happy to return the money anytime on the other hand if you are bad customer you would have wasted all the money you borrowed and when the bankers ask for the money you would hide ,lie, runaway to protect yourself.Life is the loan from nature ,one should make maximum use of it and live the life to the fullest in every moment without sorrow,without fear,with lots of love and if you live the life to the fullest you will be ready to die anytime because you haven't left anything undone in your life in that moment.

so Are you ready to die ??? :-)

Decidophobia

Decisions, decisions and more decisions! The fear of making serious decisions is a new kind of fear, called decidophobia.

We make numerous decision each day every moment some aware and some unaware,some simple and some complex.Few simple decision could be what to wear to office today , what to have for breakfast ,lunch..,some complex decision could be choosing which course to join after school ,which job offer to take ,right life partner,these are complex because these decisions are mostly irreversible or consequences would be high if a wrong decision is made ,in these scenario we get into decidophobia.

Often we avoid taking serious decisions ourself .

• Delaying the decision hoping that something will happen on its own.
• Giving the responsibility to other .(This common in our society most of the decisions are made by parents)
• Following something which worked before.(Your cousin got good job after doing MBA ,so you are also doing)
• Believing in supernatural stuffs ,god ,astrology,palmistry etc.,
• sometimes we avoid thinking about the decision itself.

Strange thing is we leave the serious decision making responsibility to others which is going to affect us.A delayed decision is as good as not making any decision at all.

lets look into what best can be done to make good decision .The first principle in making good decision is that you must not fool yourself,be honest to yourself first.

A decision usually involves three steps:

1. A recognition of a need: A dissatisfaction within oneself--a void or need;
2. A decision to change--to fill the void or need;
3. A conscious dedication to implement the decision.

More to follow ..

Me & My Guitar

Golden Five Letters -S.P.A.C.E

Nothing Much to say -Jus remember these five letters before you react to any situation ,you are going to Win.
S = Situational Awareness; “reading” situations, people, interactions, andcontexts.
P = Presence; also known as “bearing”; how one presents one’s self insituations.
A = Authenticity; behaving honestly, with integrity, and from a clear senseof self.
C = Clarity; skill at asking, telling, persuading, and getting one’s ideas into the minds of others.
E = Empathy; the skill of connecting with people, on a personal and meaningfullevel; getting them to move with and toward you rather than away andagainst you.