How many times in your life you have said "No" when some one whom you love and respect says you to do something that you don't agree ... Say your choice of education , choice of profession ,food , your marriage . I am sure very few would have said .
We always think that decision made by elders ( say father ,mother ,aunt ...) are always right and we seldom challenge them .Of course they think for our betterment only and why should we not take their advice ??. I am not saying we should not but one should take that with our own judgement .This is the problem with most of the parents or elders who thinks their decision will help their children without even asking them about their consent and even bad thing is they feel that they are not respected if we go against or even challenge their decision. What this leads to ? we will loose our ability to make decisions .We think our teachers are always right ,our boss is always right .. even if they are not right we don't challenge them..
All of us learn by our bad experiences ,by our mistakes not by our success . . Unless you make the decision ,you cannot fail or succeed all by your own ,u always have someone whom u can blame or praise for whatever they have done to you.
So whatever be the decision Big or Small .. think about it ,analyse about pros and cons and finally accept or reject it . Disagree in a way people could accept and understand your view . When you have decided "Just Do It " and don't think about the decision again .
Sooner you Fail.. Sooner you will reach the Success.
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