How many times we repeat the same idea that some one had told in the same meeting just minutes before .. . How many times in a conversation we ask pardon me ! How many times we are prejudice about a discussion just because we don't like the person we discuss with .Sounds familiar ....
Listening to someone conveys more message about you than you think. It shows how much you respect , how much u care about what they talk .It helps you to build trust with others .
Following point would help in better listening.
Listening to someone conveys more message about you than you think. It shows how much you respect , how much u care about what they talk .It helps you to build trust with others .
Following point would help in better listening.
- Be prepared to listen and concentrate on the message not on the person who is saying it .
- Don't multitask .. try chatting and speaking on phone at same time.. see yourself how much u understood on the conversation over phone .. and worst thing is person on the other end can easily know u are not actively listening.
- Take some notes on the discussion unless you have extraordinary memory to remember everything.
- Clarify what you understood , nothing is worst than wrong interpretation of the message.
- Look at the person who is taking ,this makes the person understand that u are listening.
- Don't jump to conclusion ..if u are not sure ,ask for time to decide on the result of the discussion.
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I am listening ;)
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